Respecting your child's struggle Justina Chen When you held your precious little baby in your hands for the first time, you vowed to do whatever you can to protect him. You'd… Read More
How I lost my temper and what I could have done differently Justina Chen I want to share a story about something that happened over the weekend which we're calling 'The Lost Ponies' incident. Over the weekend, we went… Read More
Let go of parenting guilt and Take. A. Break Justina Chen Yesterday, I went on an epic rant to a friend. What started as a normal conversation quickly spiralled into: "I just wish I could check… Read More
How do I decide when to set a boundary with my child? Justina Chen On one hand you want your child to explore her environment through play and you want your child to express herself. But on the other… Read More
My child only wants mummy for everything! Justina Chen If you relate to the title of this blog, you're not alone. Parent preference is something that so many families deal with. Here's our experience… Read More
Bringing your child to the dentist Justina Chen Going to the dentist can be scary for a lot of children. The unfamiliar sights and smells as well as the uncertainty of what’s going… Read More
Advocating for our children while respecting our elders Justina Chen Whenever I return to my hometown, I get anxious. Why? Because I worry about the differences in opinion between the way I raise my child… Read More
What do I do when my child tantrums? Justina Chen Tantrums, it’s something you might be all too familiar with if you have a toddler. The thing is, it’s so developmentally appropriate for toddlers to… Read More
How do I set boundaries with a pre-verbal toddler? Justina Chen We get variations of this question almost weekly. How do you set boundaries with a young toddler, who's well into the stage of asserting their… Read More
What to do when your child likes to throw things they're not supposed to Justina Chen So, you don't want your child to be throwing things they're not supposed to. It might destroy the item, hurt people or make a huge… Read More
What to do when you've lost your cool Justina Chen The other day was a hard day. I lost my cool. I raised my voice. I banged things around. I said mean things. It gives… Read More
The wonder of child-led free play (part 2) Justina Chen In our previous blog post, we shared 3 important benefits to child-led play and today we’re going over even more! Amazing benefits of child-led free… Read More
The wonder of child-led free play (part 1) Justina Chen Confession time - I used to think free play was a waste of time. I used to work in an international school with an early… Read More
Knowing and owning our stories Justina Chen I was caned as a child. My mother tells me that I wasn't beaten as many times as I seem to recall. In my mind,… Read More
It's not an adult's job to entertain kids Justina Chen We've been conditioned to think that part of raising kids is to entertain them. To make them happy, to set up activities for them, to… Read More
What do I do when my 'threenager' is giving me attitude? Justina Chen The other day, my three-year old announced, "Make my Milo right NOW!” I had a few options: A - Ignore her until she asked me… Read More
How to acknowledge your child’s feelings Justina Chen In our previous post about acknowledging feelings, we talked about its many benefits for your children. In this post, we’ll talk about HOW you can… Read More